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How to feel confident approaching a girl you are attracted to

It can be overwhelming to go from approaching someone you have attraction towards whilst with the confidence of a group, to then doing it alone, but i'm here to tell you that doing it alone is what builds lasting confidence, so start small, start at a shop, a social space, and keep that process up, with time and constant mental strength, you will end up being able to approach anywhere


Getting there comes with small wins and consistency, each day.


When I work with guys, a lot of the time a common answer is that they don't want to approach someone they aren't attracted towards, but approaching many people at first builds your mental muscle to then be able to approach the girl you are attracted to when the time comes, otherwise you might be waiting for the perfect time, when that may take a whole lot of time.


So keep approaching everyone, build your social muscle, then you will have so much confidence and experience, you will then be able to approach those you are interested in.


It sounds easy, which in theory it is, but this is you vs you, the first step is to mentally think about it each time you go out.


Don't get down if you don't approach, collect yourself and start again.

 
 
 

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