Why you aren't connecting with her

Yesterday I took my mum out to eat, as I love eating, and very often I get free food, only because I have good conversations with the waiters/waitresses.The more it happened to me, the more i got to realise that people do it because its not often they get to connect with another person, it's very transactional, hi, sit down, eat, bye.

Having an actual conversation has allowed people to really open up, the week before that I got free perfume and yesterday my mum got given an actual perfume bottle from this lady from Kuwait, only because we asked her where she got it from.

This same principle goes a long way with approaching women you are attracted to as well, really understand, that connecting with people in general, will open up your dating life.